This morning on Saturday I had a one on one horse riding lesson with my teacher. I learned how to ride my horse faster than a trot. To me a trot is already very fast and hard to know how to sit right or ride the right way so that I do not fly off the horse from bouncing off in my seat and losing my balance. We had me be led by the rope around in a 30 foot circumfrence circle around my teacher where the horse ended up going from a trot to a full on canter or galloping, not thoroughbred horse speeds, but still very fast. It was not dizzying to me but very thrilling to feel the rush of a horse running very fast, it was very smooth, but I had to hang on to the handle on the saddle so that I would not fly off. I really liked it. I'm not sure if I would rather go bowling with the girl of my dreams or go cantering with my horse I ride right now? It's a toss up of which would thrill me more and give me that adrenaline rush and sensation.
Horse riding is so F***ing bad ass! I love it.
At the horse riding center they have a woman I talked to and met by introducing myself to her that is between the ages of 25 to 35 about. She was there at the riding grounds last Saturday morning, I did not see her today, even though I made the rounds to try to run across her while looking at the horses in the stalls and saying hello to the horse owners. She had a ring on one of her hands so I do not know if she is single or not. I might have at the end before I left this morning seen a woman who looked somewhat like her but she had on a different outfit and t-shirt from last week and did not look like she acknowledged me or showed recoginition to me in her face or body language at all that I could register or pick up on. The woman this morning I could not tell if she has the same green tattoo on her inside wrist or the face piercings earrings on her lower cheek. I hope to come across her again and get to see her and talk to her a few more times before I find out if she would be willing to get to know me better, or if she will notify me that she is married or she has a boyfriend. I have taken lessons since October and this I think is the first time that I ever saw her. Maybe I saw her once before that, but my mom warned me later on that night on the phone that many of these girls who own horses at the riding stables will not go out with me once they find out that I take theraputic horse riding lessons for my ADD ADHD and they might look down on me for it. My lessons are going great, so I am not ashamed of it at all, but a beautiful, wealthy young white woman might not be comfortable dating a guy who goes to take his riding lessons at the theraputic riding center. I asked one of the cordinators of my horse riding program who stables her horse near the attractive woman I like's horse, but she did not know a blond woman age 25 to 35 at that part of the stables herself. I sure don't want to try to hard or scare anyone off by being to aggressive about it. I did tell the cute woman that I take my lessons on Saturday mornings and my interests in horses and my name. But after I gave her my name she did not tell me hers or say anything else last week. I believe that was a big social skills cue she was not interested, but I want to try to say hello to her one more time to see if she opens up and responds to me again about my interest in her horse and her horse grooming and horse care skills she knows really well from her riding horses since age 3 or 4! I can talk to almost anyone, it's just knowing how to read if they like me or want to talk to me or not after I have engaged them in a conversation is the hard part for me to be able to grasp or do well with. I could ask her to grab lunch near by with me....but I do not want to come on to strong to fast and upset her or be to much to soon. At least I do not have a fantasy about her, even though I think I might now like her. My guess is that she is close to my age and that she used to be in the 1990's and early 2000's punk rock/ska/swing dancing scene in Orange County based on her dyed and bleached blond hair and her two face piercings she had.
Now the trick is to come across her or run into her without seeming like I am in her face or stepping on her toes at the stables. If I immediately leave after my riding lesson or volunteering for the other riders who are special needs kids and go straight from my arena to my car in the paring lot, I will never see her. I doubt that she would bother to go and watch me ride or volunteer with my lessons herself. Most girls do not take the intiative to show upfront obvious interest or respect in a person like myself after meeting me and knowing that I was interested in them.
So I got to figure out a way on how to do it without seeming like the bad guy for trying to say hello to her in case she does not want to be open and friendly with me and I miss a social skills signal that is not so obvious to me but much more subtle and harder for me to read, to see, to get and be able to pick up on right away!
I thought she was pretty, well groomed, healthy, had a sexy figure, and I was impressed about her love and connection to riding and owing and caring for her horse that she loves!
Horse riding is so F***ing bad ass! I love it.
At the horse riding center they have a woman I talked to and met by introducing myself to her that is between the ages of 25 to 35 about. She was there at the riding grounds last Saturday morning, I did not see her today, even though I made the rounds to try to run across her while looking at the horses in the stalls and saying hello to the horse owners. She had a ring on one of her hands so I do not know if she is single or not. I might have at the end before I left this morning seen a woman who looked somewhat like her but she had on a different outfit and t-shirt from last week and did not look like she acknowledged me or showed recoginition to me in her face or body language at all that I could register or pick up on. The woman this morning I could not tell if she has the same green tattoo on her inside wrist or the face piercings earrings on her lower cheek. I hope to come across her again and get to see her and talk to her a few more times before I find out if she would be willing to get to know me better, or if she will notify me that she is married or she has a boyfriend. I have taken lessons since October and this I think is the first time that I ever saw her. Maybe I saw her once before that, but my mom warned me later on that night on the phone that many of these girls who own horses at the riding stables will not go out with me once they find out that I take theraputic horse riding lessons for my ADD ADHD and they might look down on me for it. My lessons are going great, so I am not ashamed of it at all, but a beautiful, wealthy young white woman might not be comfortable dating a guy who goes to take his riding lessons at the theraputic riding center. I asked one of the cordinators of my horse riding program who stables her horse near the attractive woman I like's horse, but she did not know a blond woman age 25 to 35 at that part of the stables herself. I sure don't want to try to hard or scare anyone off by being to aggressive about it. I did tell the cute woman that I take my lessons on Saturday mornings and my interests in horses and my name. But after I gave her my name she did not tell me hers or say anything else last week. I believe that was a big social skills cue she was not interested, but I want to try to say hello to her one more time to see if she opens up and responds to me again about my interest in her horse and her horse grooming and horse care skills she knows really well from her riding horses since age 3 or 4! I can talk to almost anyone, it's just knowing how to read if they like me or want to talk to me or not after I have engaged them in a conversation is the hard part for me to be able to grasp or do well with. I could ask her to grab lunch near by with me....but I do not want to come on to strong to fast and upset her or be to much to soon. At least I do not have a fantasy about her, even though I think I might now like her. My guess is that she is close to my age and that she used to be in the 1990's and early 2000's punk rock/ska/swing dancing scene in Orange County based on her dyed and bleached blond hair and her two face piercings she had.
Now the trick is to come across her or run into her without seeming like I am in her face or stepping on her toes at the stables. If I immediately leave after my riding lesson or volunteering for the other riders who are special needs kids and go straight from my arena to my car in the paring lot, I will never see her. I doubt that she would bother to go and watch me ride or volunteer with my lessons herself. Most girls do not take the intiative to show upfront obvious interest or respect in a person like myself after meeting me and knowing that I was interested in them.
So I got to figure out a way on how to do it without seeming like the bad guy for trying to say hello to her in case she does not want to be open and friendly with me and I miss a social skills signal that is not so obvious to me but much more subtle and harder for me to read, to see, to get and be able to pick up on right away!
I thought she was pretty, well groomed, healthy, had a sexy figure, and I was impressed about her love and connection to riding and owing and caring for her horse that she loves!